Apparently, I should never brush my hair, because that is part of why it has been so frizzy. My hair has too much curl for brushing, and I'm just supposed to use a wide-toothed comb or my fingers. No blow drying necessary, product only to control frizz (which I was already doing before). In the photo, I have part of it pinned back, because that part keeps hanging in my eyes. I felt like Veronica Lake. So I had to pin it back, and will probably need to do so until it gets long enough to tuck behind my ear again, but it's easy and I like how it looks.
Anyway, ta da! I'm looking forward to washing it and marvelling at how easy it is.